Inclusive Dates

“When you realize you can tell someone your truth…when you stand in front of them and their response is ‘you’re safe with me’, that’s intimacy.”
— Taylor Jenkins Reid

If you’re seeing this page, you know I’m completely comfortable with sharing myself with you.

So here’s some ideas to fuel your imagination. I’m certainly open to others…

Fun & Games — Spend a day golfing, hiking, biking, or on the water, then privately refresh and rejuvenate with each other afterwards (~6 hours - $1,900)

A Succulent Encounter — Grocery shop, then retire to a local AirBNB to cook and savor a meal and each other (~5 hours - $1,700)

Movie Time — Meet at a local establishment for a quick beverage, then cuddle on the couch with snacks, drinks, and watch a movie with a happy ending (~4 hours - $1,400)

Indulgence — Start with a private dessert then go out for a light lunch or dinner at a favorite restaurant (~3 hours - $1,100)

Freelancing (Minimum Time) — Arrive separately at a local establishment, then flirt shamelessly with each other until one of us makes the first move to go somewhere more private to deepen the conversation (~2 hours - $800)

Each Additional Hour — $400

For Established Friends

Long Weekend — Typically Friday evening through Sunday afternoon (~36 hours - $10,500)

A Round-the-Clock Encounter — Encounters requiring a deep exploration of a subject (~24 hours ($7,000)

Overnight Encounters — When the night turns into day (12-15 hours - $4,000)

Longer-term Encounters $7,000 (first 24 hours) + $4,000 for each additional 24 hours — 5 day maximum

PLEASE NOTE: Your investment is only for my time and companionship. Nothing more is expected or implied. Each of these encounters should include public, social experiences as well as private time.

SCHEDULING

I live in the upper Midwest United States, surrounded by beautiful lakes, streams, parks, and the mighty Mississippi River. I love to travel, and meetings outside my immediate area (including DMTY and FMTY) are fun and exciting, but take more time to plan! 

From Fall through Spring, I am only available to meet you on weekends with at least two weeks notice. But don’t despair! My summer availability is much more flexible.

  • Please just be patient getting things scheduled as we plan our time together. I’ll try to make it worth your while, I promise!

  • I’m also very happy to tentatively schedule a month or two in advance if that’s what you prefer.

TRAVEL

Travel outside the upper Midwest may incur additional consideration. All travel requires airfare (First-Class, Business, or Coach Upgrade flights) and/or ground transportation. I organize all my own travel arrangements. All details will be discussed/agreed upon after verification but before receipt of deposit.

Example “Drive Me to You” Additional Time & Mileage Consideration

  • Cedar Rapids, IA, Wisconsin Dells, WI — + $100 travel time & ground transportation

  • Madison, WI, Minneapolis, MN — 4 hour minimum engagement +$ 200 travel time & ground transportation

  • Green Bay, WI, Milwaukee, WI — 4 hour minimum engagement + $300 travel time & ground transportation

  • Chicago, IL, St. Louis, MO — 6 hour minimum engagement + $400 travel time & ground transportation (may also incur airfare in addition to travel time depending on time requirements)

Example “Fly Me To You” Minimum Time Together & Additional Travel Time Allowance (excluding transportation expenses)

  • Central United States — 6 hour minimum engagement +$600 travel time

  • East Coast, Southeast US, or Mountain/Western time zone — 8 hour minimum engagement +$800 travel time

  • International — 24 hour minimum engagement +$1,000 travel time

HOSPITALITY

  • I do not have an in-call; however, I organize all my own travel arrangements and will be pleased to find us a cozy place to relax if you would prefer (no private residences please).

  • Times we are together between 3 hours and 5 hours should include a meal.

  • Times we are together between 6 and 12 hours should include 1-2 meals (depending on how hungry we are!)

  • If our time together ends after 11pm, if requested, please plan on providing separate 4/5-star hotel accommodations. However, meeting for breakfast the next morning would be great!

  • For times we are together for 12 hours or longer, please plan on providing separate 4/5-star hotel accommodations, 2 hours of personal time each day, and at least 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep time each night.

DEPOSITS

  • Your total investment will be provided to you prior to confirming our meeting and after verification. A deposit equal to 25% of your time investment plus 100% of travel and accommodation expenses is requested that may be paid through Cash App, GooglePay, or Venmo. The remaining investment is required in US dollars at the time of our engagement for new clients. If discussed beforehand, electronic funds may be accepted for returning clients.

  • FMTY and extended time together requires a 50% deposit and all travel expenses paid beforehand with the balance due in US dollars on arrival.

CANCELLATIONS

  • 48+ hours — entire deposit applied toward a future meeting

  • 24-48 hours — 50% of deposit applied toward a future meeting

  • 8-24 hours — forfeit deposit

  • Less than 8 hours — forfeit deposit AND pay 50% of the remaining amount

  • Fail to notify, or notify at/after date start time — forfeit deposit AND pay the entire remaining amount