Intimate Encounters

“When you realize you can tell someone your truth…when you stand in front of them and their response is ‘you’re safe with me’, that’s intimacy.”
Taylor Jenkins Reid

If you’re seeing this page, you know I’m completely comfortable with sharing myself with you.

So here’s some ideas to fuel your imagination. I’m certainly open to others…

Fun & GamesPlay golf, hike, bike, or spend time on the water, then relax privately and recharge together. (~6 hours, $2,100)

A Succulent Encounter Buy groceries, then relax at a nearby Airbnb to cook and enjoy a meal and each other. (~5 hours, $1,800)

Movie Time — Grab a drink at a nearby place, then go home to cuddle on the couch with snacks and drinks and watch a feel-good movie.(~4 hours, $1,500)

IndulgenceBegin with dessert at home, then go out for a light lunch or dinner at a favorite restaurant. (~3 hours, $1,300)

Freelancing (Minimum Time)Meet at a local spot, then openly flirt until one of us suggests going somewhere more private. (~2 hours, $1,000)

If you wish to extend our time together, I request $500 for each additional hour.

Please see below for longer-term engagements.

PLEASE NOTE: Your investment is only for my time and companionship. Nothing more is expected or implied. Each of these engagements should include public, social experiences as well as private time.

For Established Friends

Long Weekends — Typically Friday evening through Sunday afternoon (up to 36 hours - $7,500)

Round-the-Clock EncountersEncounters requiring a deep exploration of a subject (up to 24 hours - $5,000)

Overnight EncountersWhen the night turns into day (up to 15 hours - $3,400)

All Day AdventureLet’s make it an all-day affair (7-11 hours - $2,800)

Longer-term Engagements — $5,000 (first 24 hours) + $2,500 for each additional 24 hours — 5 day maximum

SCHEDULING

I live in the upper Midwest United States, surrounded by beautiful lakes, streams, parks, and the mighty Mississippi River.

  • From Fall through Spring, with few exceptions, I am only available to meet you on weekends with at least two weeks notice. But don’t despair! My summer availability is much more flexible.

  • Please just be patient getting things scheduled as we plan our time together. I’ll try to make it worth your while, I promise!

  • I’m also very happy to tentatively schedule a month or two in advance if that’s what you prefer.

DMTY TRAVEL

In addition to my consideration, all DMTY engagements will be hosted at an upscale hotel at the rate at which I book it. Please see below for additional travel & hospitality information. I organize all my own travel and outcall arrangements. All details will be discussed/agreed upon after verification but before receipt of deposit.

Example Minimum Time Together & Additional Travel Consideration

  • Rochester, MN, Eau Claire, WI — 2 hour minimum engagement +$ 100 travel

  • Dubuque, IA, Madison, WI — 3 hour minimum engagement +$ 150 travel

  • Minneapolis, MN, Green Bay, WI, Milwaukee, WI — 4 hour minimum engagement + $200 travel

  • Chicago, IL, St. Louis, MO — 5 hour minimum engagement + $300 travel (may also incur airfare in addition to travel depending on time requirements)

FMTY TRAVEL

All FMTY travel requires airfare (First-Class, Business, or Coach Upgrade flights). In addition to my consideration, all FMTY engagements will be hosted at an upscale hotel at the rate at which I book it. I organize all my own travel and hotel arrangements. All details will be discussed/agreed upon after verification but before receipt of deposit.

Minimum Time Together & Additional Travel Consideration (excluding transportation expenses)

  • Central Time Zone — 4 hour minimum engagement +$600 travel in addition to airfare & hospitality

  • Eastern, Mountain or Western time zones — 6 hour minimum engagement +$800 travel in addition to airfare & hospitality

  • International — 24 hour minimum engagement +$1,000 travel in addition to airfare and hospitality

HOSPITALITY

  • I organize all my own travel arrangements and will find us a cozy and private place to relax.

  • Times we are together between 3 hours and 5 hours should include a meal.

  • Times we are together between 6 and 12 hours should include 1-2 meals (depending on how hungry we are!)

  • If our time together ends after 11pm, if requested, please plan on providing separate 4/5-star hotel accommodations. However, meeting for breakfast the next morning would be great!

  • For times we are together for 12 hours or longer, please plan on providing separate 4/5-star hotel accommodations, 2 hours of personal time each day, and at least 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep time each night.

DEPOSITS

  • Your total investment will be provided to you prior to confirming our meeting and after verification. A deposit equal to 25% of your time investment plus 100% of travel and accommodation expenses is requested that may be paid through Cash App, GooglePay, or Venmo. The remaining investment is required in US dollars at the time of our engagement for new clients. If discussed beforehand, electronic funds may be accepted for returning clients.

  • FMTY and extended time together requires a 50% deposit and all travel expenses paid beforehand with the balance due in US dollars on arrival for new clients. If discussed beforehand, electronic funds may be accepted for returning clients.

CANCELLATIONS

  • 48+ hours — entire deposit applied toward a future meeting

  • 24-48 hours — 50% of deposit applied toward a future meeting

  • 8-24 hours — forfeit deposit

  • Less than 8 hours — forfeit deposit AND pay 50% of the remaining amount

  • Fail to notify, or notify at/after date start time — forfeit deposit AND pay the entire remaining amount