Upcoming Social FMTY Ideas
I worked hard last summer and didn't take many breaks, but this Spring and Summer will be different! I've found many fun activities to do, and I'd love to go on a social date with you so we may enjoy them together.
Since most of these experiences occur at night, plan enjoying our late afternoon and evening together, staying overnight, then sharing breakfast together the next morning. I would fly into the city where we are meeting in the afternoon. Once I arrive, I will get checked into my hotel, then meet you for an early dinner or pre-event beverage. Then we’re off on our adventure! Afterwards, we can finish off the night with drinks, a late-night dinner, or some other late-night activity (there may be gaming involved if we’re in Las Vegas). The next morning, we will have breakfast together before saying our goodbyes.
These are exclusively public, social experiences. Your investment includes only my time and companionship — nothing more is expected or implied. All in-person dates with new friends require a prior videochat and screening.
Check out what I’ve found so far, and I’m sure I’ll be adding more as I discover them. And let me know if there's other events you'd like to experience together! There are also many other ideas on my In-person Dates page.
Because I lead a busy life, I would appreciate an absolute minimum of two week’s notice. Three to four weeks would be even better because tickets are going fast, and to save on airfare and hotel pricing. So don’t delay filling out my Booking form so we can start making plans!
Take Me Out to the Ballgame!
If you know me at all, you know I’m a die-hard St. Louis Cardinals fan and I’m on a quest to visit all the major league ballparks. So let’s go watch the Cardinals in a ballpark I haven’t yet visited. I’m also open to catching a game of your favorite team so we can experience a new ballpark together. Fill out my Booking form and let me know!
June 12th or 13th @ the Milwaukee Brewers (DMTY)
July 15th — the All-Star Game in Atlanta
July 22nd @ the Colorado Rockies
August 1st or 2nd @ the San Diego Padres
August 3rd, 4th, or 5th @ the Los Angeles Dodgers
(June 9 - August 13) Other games for teams you’d like to attend (Let me know!)
Depending on my schedule, let’s discuss other games that start earlier than 3pm local time or games for other teams you’d like to attend.
Concerts
I love going to concerts and shows, and I’ve discovered a bunch of them this summer, and I’ll be adding more as they become available. I’d also love to join you at a concert of your favorite band if my schedule permits. Fill out my Booking form and let me know who you want to see this summer!
Backstreet Boys (Las Vegas Sphere) — August 1-3, August 8-10
Doobie Brothers w/ the Coral Reefers Band (Detroit, MI — August 4), (Burgettstown, PA — August 6), (Holmdel, NJ — August 7), (Bristow, VA — August 9), (Wantagh, NY — August 10), (Virginia Beach — August 12), (Camden, NJ — August 13), (Boston, MA - August 15)
Kenny Chesney (Las Vegas Sphere) — June 11, 13, 14, 18, 20, or 21
Broadway Musicals in NYC on Multiple Dates: Book of Mormon, Hamilton, Harry Potter, Little Shop of Horrors, Moulin Rouge, or Wicked (let’s discuss shows & dates)
(June 9 - August 13) Other concerts you’d like to attend (Let me know!)
Other Adventures
Have clubs, will travel! Let’s play 18 at your favorite or dream golf course.
Let me be your First Mate as we cruise off into the sunset on your favorite lake or river (or ocean!)
Get on your hiking boots and show me your favorite mountaintop view.
I play a pretty mean game of BlackJack and so let’s try our luck at your favorite destination casino!
(June 9 - August 13) Other adventures you’d like to experience with me (Let me know!)
Long Weekend Events
These events require additional time commitments and consideration. Please complete the Booking form and I will touch base with you regarding the details.
National Finals Rodeo (Las Vegas — December 12-13)
World Series (TBD)
Let me know if there are there any other things you’d like to experience. I’m always up for an adventure!
THE FINE PRINT
Requested Investment
$1,000 for each of the above 16-20 hour events (excluding Long Weekend events).
Good News! I am not requesting any additional travel time consideration for these excursions.
Want me to arrive earlier or extend our date after our morning breakfast? (Noon departure = +$275), (Early arrival or mid-afternoon departure = +$475), (additional 24 hours = +$900 + hotel/meals) (Additional time subject to flight schedules and time schedule availability)
Note: Your investment is for my time and companionship only — nothing more is expected or implied.
Travel & Hospitality
All travel requires airfare and/or ground transportation. I organize all my own travel and hotel arrangements; however, please plan on providing for air/ground transportation, separate hotel accommodations (3/4-star minimum). Also please plan on providing meals, event tickets, merchandise, and any incidentals while we are together. All details will be discussed and agreed upon after verification but before sending a deposit.
Deposits
Your total investment will be provided to you prior to confirming our date and after verification. FMTY and time together requires a 50% deposit and 100% of travel/hotel expenses paid beforehand with the balance due in US dollars upon arrival. Deposit and travel expenses may be paid through CashApp, Venmo, or Stripe (major credit cards). If discussed beforehand, electronic funds may be accepted for returning clients for the remaining balance.
Cancellations
48+ hours — entire deposit applied toward a future date; 24-48 hours — 50% of deposit applied toward a future date; 8-24 hours — forfeit deposit; Less than 8 hours — forfeit deposit AND pay 50% of the remaining amount; Fail to notify, or notify at/after date start time — forfeit deposit AND pay the entire remaining amount
Note: All flight and hotel expenses are non-refundable.
Prerequisites
For new friends: At least one prior casual or spicy videochats and screening.